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  • May 19, 2020 03:07 AM
    Last: 1yr
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    My bad, I have my ex's confused. The one lady above was yapping about my ex-husband. Still a worthless father & husband. Still more engaged w/his adopted children then his own children. Still put his hands on me. He DID NOT leave me, I threw his DV acting out self out. The military doesn't tolerate that crap! So, again before you go to jumping to worthless conclusions, get your 2 cents in order before running off at the lip!! BTW, I worked 3 jobs at a time to take of our son, traveled to/from VA for divorce hearings, & had to involve the State Representative's to get my son back bc my ex & his parents attempted to kidnap him to Alaska. Something else the US Army wasn't going to put up with. Yes, I'm a horrid parent & person.

    TDP!!

  • May 19, 2020 03:07 AM
    Last: 1yr
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    Folks, so happy to see all of you jumping to conclusions about me. It didn't take much reviewing to see how most of you assumed the worst in what I had to say. First of all, I was not just sitting back doing nothing but attempting to live of Mr. Deadbeat & his new wife & other children. For the record I was the one working, rearing our children, he was not remarried nor did he have any other children, that is unless you want to call the drunks at the local bar or his cocaine dealer his children. Second, he did not leave me & our kids bc of my mouth or hatred for him. On the contrary, he hooked up w/the local crack whore & her husband & snorted & drank up our savings to pay the property taxes & bills. Then proceeded to commit DV, not once but twice upon my person on County Property in the presence of County Employees. Third, if you need your sick sucked, I'm sure my ex can help you out. Forth, if you are so inclined to continue to bash on me, maybe you should go evaluate yourself & situation in the mirror. Obviously you dislike my post bc you do not to hear the truth. The truth of the matter is, for whatever reason, good or bad, either you or your significant other had/have an obligation to support your children and failed to do so. That's the bottom line. No provisions were made to correct the situation. It was ignored in hopes that it would go away or be forgiven & forgotten. It doesn't work that way. The children suffered at the hands of their own parent. Yet the crying still goes on & yet I'm on the receiving end of a bashing for speaking the truth. Fifth, have any one of you stopped to consider the OTHER parent in this matter?? Have you even once bothered to find out if there is anything that parent needs in order to take care of the children while they are not being supported by you? Maybe the other parent could use an extra evening off, or the yard mowed, or anything that shows them that hey, I got you covered instead of just ignoring the problem. They might be a bit more inclined to forgive some of those arrears. But then again, ya'll just so self absorbed & hell bent on bashing on me. Sixth, to the lady that told me that I was no Princess but rather a bi*ch! Let's get one thing PERFECTLY straight k?? I am not a bi*ch! I AM a PROFESSIONAL BI*CH!! Plz get it straight!!

    I am & always will be, The Dolphin Princess!!

  • May 19, 2020 03:07 AM
    Last: 1yr
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    Umm, I'm sorry?? Are you serious?? There are arrearages due on child support, for either your own children or your spouse's children, that they failed to support, most likely contrary to a Court Order & you are HONESTLY on here crying the blues because CSEA is intercepting a stimulus check the government is advancing you/your spouse!! Money is OWED to the custodial parent, point blank! A court order was violated, point blank! -- While the custodial parent was rearing their children without the additional financial assistance of the other parent, those children were doing without. Without the ability to experience extra-cirricular activities, decent Christmas, nice day trips, or even a few extra hours with their parent because they are working like mad to make up for little extra money that should be coming via the child support! But you're justified in complaint that the government is screwing YOU and YOUR OTHER family around! Did you even take your older children & financial situation into consideration when you tossed your 'old' family aside for your 'new' family? Doubtful! If you cannot financially sustain one family, for what reason did you think you could support two? Or did you just think they would fade away & the Court & government would forgive your misguided 'I am owed attitude' as your posts suggests? You're on SSI, that's too bad. Send SOMETHING! Step up & make an effort instead of whining about what 'you are owed'! YOUR CHILDREN (or the custodial parent) that you failed to support are owed! *the term you is not all inclusive.

    Signed, Waiting for CSEA to send me his check!!